Just The Weekends?!

It all started with a User saying there is a 404. He was friendly (I know others!!!) - I said „thank you!“ and fixed the problem.

Next time he found something being wrong, he mailed to my account directly and added some fun-stuff as well.
And next time (heck!!! now you think I produce bad stuff, huh?!) - since he has photography as a hobby he sent me a pic of some very nice flowers. Title of the E-Mail: „Since the weather is so darn bad“.

In the German language as well as in French, Italian and so on you differ gramatically as adults between being friends or not. He took on the „du“, the friend-stuff, right away. I´m fine with that.

Since over a week (two! Huh?! At least!) he sends me a pic he took each day and that along with a very welcoming Good-Morning. It´s really good, makes me smile big :-)

We chat along a bit, if time allows it, too.

Whilst I start at 6:15, he starts at 10. Why?
Well.. He´s alone inbetween the week, I learned now!

I said, weekend-relationship?! OMG, had that for 13 years!
They´re now in their 12t h year - some whopping 300 km apart.

And... fine with it. Kinda. Like we were. Like... if you don´t know better.

It just broke my heart, I felt depressed and sad instantly.

I will never ever (never say never, huh?!) go back to anything like that.

Let´s see... could imagine he will really keep on sending me great pics and a great „morning“-greeting for a while. No idea bout age or anything and that´s ok.
We belong(ed) to THAT type of guys (for a time waaaay too long).

At the time being... with him the number of couples doing this (weekend-relationship) grew to three in my circle (with one in WA going to the extreme). How about you/r guys?

Can you somehow imagine how happy, glad and everything I am Ingo is right next door?
Like right now? On a Thursday?
Just like that?
As if this was normal? Ups – it IS normal!
13 DUMB* years of weekend-relationship. Over and never again.

* Talk to couples who´re doing it. It´s not that bad! Only in the aftermath. I could gag right now for all the lost quality-time.
Sorry. The truth for me.