Sunday, March 15, 2026

In Love With Oranges

 

I hop in the car and Grace... "I have a pressie for you!"
"Hey... the pressie is a drink at Waldeck´s with you!!!"
But Grace rightfully assumed these fun oranges will make me smile every time and think of the happy Perth time with our friends. 
 
This is for...
 
 
Actually this post would´ve had the title "Love Talk"...
 
Let me explain:
 
So... we were at Waldecks but the women there were SO LOUD we had to leave... and after browsing the plants and pots we ended up in the car.
 
"How´s it going with Ingo?", Grace asked.
 
She is my friend, I told the truth, the full truth also that:
 
When we still had a weekend-relationship I managed nearly everything on my own and now...
"Ingo, can you, Ingo, can you..."
Ingo is taller, hence faster... more skilled... stronger... you name it!!!
 
"No!", said Grace, "you need to do that yourself again!"
 
And I do. I start...
And it feels good, too.
 
It takes longer, I need my mini-IKEA-chair when I need to reach high up, so what.
 
The butterflyclips... "Ingo, can you... Ingo..." - I can do that myself!!! 
 


I even took the pic myself - you see try#5 here (or such). 
And it feels good!!!
Will I drive a car again? In Germany? Not so sure.
Ingo would give me his without hesitation. 
But... not yet. Or.. ever?
I take away my freedom, I know!
But I don´t want to risk lives, mine and others!
Say "buh!" and I flip.
A tyre blowing is like "buh!" - happened to Ingo once. 
 
Grace asked me to name but three things good about Ingo.
That is so difficult!
It would be worth three single posts. But I keep it short, and this is just for Perth-holiday:
#1 booked rides and flights despite strikes and all (can do!!!)
#2 got me sold out oil pastels I did not even ask for (cares!!!!)
#3 always makes sure the gear and I are OK (combines #1 and 2)
 
Also cooks well, does groceries, let´s me know when great shows are on.. sorry, Grace, more than three and I could go on.
You know him. Always on the run but with a good heart. 
 
Well, not the point?
 
Art led to talk and the art made it home, see - they made it from our kitchen to my PC:
 
 
Thank you, Grace, oh sooo much more to come, pop in next Sunday!
P.S. .... in the background you see the poppy-sachet Grace´s Hubby presented me - from Waldecks - in 2015. Yes, it still hangs there - greetings! 
 
Henry 🦁 with his alter ego, the Black Swan 
 

 

 
 
 

26 comments:

  1. I like the oranges. And yes... be independent. (I'm not)

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  2. Hello, Iris
    Sounds like a nice time with your friend Grace.
    Sounds like Ingo does have a good heart and really care for you.
    The oranges are cute. I love the image of Henry and the Black Swan. Enjoy your day and the new week ahead.

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    1. Eileen, we had some great times indeed and .. yes, if not easy I think Ingo does care... To a good new week ahead!

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  3. ...I miss Grace!!!

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  4. Your oranges are so cute, Iris
    Happy Sunday

    My SundaySmile linky is
    HERE

    much love

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    1. Yes, happy Sunday, Gillena! I hopped over but could not join, only left a comment...

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  5. The little orange tree is adorable!

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    1. Yes... And Grace was right - we smile at one another :-)

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  6. Those oranges are adorable and they must give you a good memory. I am also quite short, and I have step stools all over the house. Even one in the basement. My husband is tall, and sometimes when I don't feel like dragging out the step stool, again, I ask him to get something. Step stools are good exercise, right? Especially when you use them 25 times a day. Don't let a strep still get in the way of not being able to do something. That's my advice for Sunday. (Even for myself.) hugs-Erika

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    1. Yes, they sure remind me of so much, those oranges and weee... we only have a condo, so I can carry my stool around. Yes, let us do what we can an only ask if there really is a problem! Hugs and to a good Sunday

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  7. The little oranges are so cute, Iris.
    I miss Grace too.

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  8. I love your cute little oranges. And what a good observation by Grace on doing things yourself again! And sharing the good things about Ingo. (I need a stool for my highest cupboards too!)

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    1. I am thankful for honest friends! And the smiles they give me on top!

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  9. The oranges are too cut and I love your hair clip. Ohhh yes, be independent.

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    1. Thank you, Nicole - as long as I do not have to drive a car.. independent is not saying "Ingo..."

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  10. Those are the sweetest little oranges I ever saw. And yes, take back some of your independence, it's important that you know you are able to do for yourself.

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    1. Yes! And I understand Ingo! I changed for the bad... On to the better!

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  11. Dear friend Iris, I love the oranges!!! I love the barrette in your hair. Beautiful.
    And I love Henry and the black swan!
    Sending you warm hugs and lots of love!

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    1. Thank you, dear friend Linda. Warm hugs and much love on the way!

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  12. Stimmt schon, dass wir einige Aufgaben unseren Männern überlassen, weil sie größer und stärker sind. Warum auch nicht. Ich habe nicht das Gefühl, meine Unahbängigkeit aufzugegeben, wenn ich ihn darum bitte, etwas vom obersten Regal zu holen. Ja, ich könnte einen Stepstuhl holen (wir haben mehrere) und es selber machen, kein Problem, aber warum? Und natürlich gehe ich nicht auf das Dach, um die Seite vom Schornstein zu reparieren - ich war einmal da oben und das muss nicht noch mal sein. Klar könnte ich mich zwingen und dann vielleicht im Krankenhaus landen und danach tatsächlich auf Hilfe angewiesen sein - ziemlich hoher Preis, findest du nicht? Ich benutze auch nicht die Kettensäge, ich habe einen Heidenrespekt davor, aber dafür habe ich einen Großteil unseres Zauns gebaut. Nicht Auto fahren können oder wollen wäre in diesem Land allerdings übel, da es so gut wie keinen öffentlichen Nahverkehr gibt. Also, sich gegenseitig helfen macht einen noch nicht abhängig, solange es nicht zur Gewohnheit wird.

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    1. Ja solche arbeiten wie Kettensäge kann ich auch gar nicht, da mein rechter Arm nicht mehr gut funktioniert, aber ich habe einfach "Alles" an Ingo agegeben und das ist nicht gut!
      Ich bin extrem schreckhaft und da ist Auto fahren, wenn ich nicht unbedingt muss, ... ein Nein. Diese e-Scooter und e-Bikes machen es nicht einfacher... Und ich bin seit 2018 nicht mehr Auto gefahren... ich schätze, man verlenrt die Technik nicht, aber die Schreckhaftigkeit hat zugenommen und mit dem beinahe tauben rechten Ohr ist es auch nicht besser.
      Das einzige, wofür ich fahren müsste, wäre meinen Bruder besuchen. Der hat ein Auto und ist zu faul. Oder ich bins nicht wert genug... naja. Und dafür will ich keine Leben aufs Spiel setzen...

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