Sunday, December 14, 2025

A GEM!!!!! Don´t Dream It - Be It!

Memories I do have! 
My "work-husband" mS took me to the show at the TU (Technical University) here in Braunschweig - we sure were fans and he found out the event is open to public - weee did we have fun! 
 
Sadly I lost contact -  I have fond memories of him. 
Instead saying, "if you want to have a ride, come to my home" he came to mine and picked me up!
When I said, "we have a (VW-) trainee, living nearby, would you be willing to take her along, too?" - he said yes. 
Then a new colleague, living nearby (Braunschweig is a large city)... he agreed.
And all met in front of my window.
 
When he didn´t feel well (party-dude, we both were into flat sharing and had weekend-relationships) - he called and offered me his car, a super-expensive Volvo 70 with leather seats and all.
 
I remember one time - "Muffkopp", my age, very "big" - was in love with him.
Just to see him every day she popped into our office to ask if we leave at 4p.m. - mS had no clue why.
 
First time she stood in front of my window and the blinds were up.... I must be on holiday and didn´t tell her? But mS sure will come by as fP was waiting in front of my window, too. 
 
On time the black Volvo rolled in.
Muffkopp (fP gave her that name, not me) must´ve concluded:
 
As I am not there she takes my seat and sits all the way to Wolfsburg right beside mS. 
She ripped the door open with the biggest smile and then... 
... I am sitting in mS´s seat.
That disappointment!!!
I didn´t know if to laugh or.... it was hilarious.
 
I can figure her thoughts... I come with his car from his home... and also he called me "mein Kleines". 
I think everybody thought we have "a thing" - but we didn´t! 
 
Sorry. Tim Curry made me "remember" - now here goes!!! 

The Rocky Horror Show | Flashmob at Birmingham New Street

 
 
So cool, huh? 
mS... thank you for all that you did. Even when he went on holiday  with his pal he gave me his car and they took the old Ford.
We went swimming, to the pub... and on some weekends we spent together he invited Ingo as well.  
And yes, he was/is(?) a very attractive man. And kind. Caring. And if Ingo was not part of my life, who knows... But thankfully Ingo was and is.
 
Here are the heroes -  in the 70´s it sure was brave to "admit" you are not "husband and wife"-like... this may have helped, yet even today some wait to "reveal" how they feel.
Others just say, "my husband..." and no one looks astonished at him.
 

To being who you are.

 The internet series:

"Habits of the 1960s that would be unthinkable today 

 

Schooling

Corporal punishment was widespread in schools, and it was common practice to hit misbehaving children on the ankles with a ruler."

My French teacher made me sit in the corner when my friend spoke to me - he just looked when I answered! - he threw his keys at pupils and once he locked us in!!!!
The room was ground floor - we went out via window, went to "Aunt Emma" and got ourselves water-ice and "Negerkuss-Brötchen".
The pupils refused to get taught by him.
A hat was the lotto - both French teacher´s names were in it - I got the other... and traded with my friend because.. Herr Böhme was a GOOD teacher, if strict, and hence I still speak a bit of French. 
To the olden times - any stories from you
 
Henry 🦁 
 

 Of course, Henry. I´d like a piece of Pizza, though!
 

 
 
 

32 comments:

Tom said...

...Iris, the Rocky Horror Picture Show is something that I've never seem, but our son went to it every week.

magiceye said...

Love Henry in Santa avatar!

EricaSta said...

Was für spannende wie auch lustige Erinnerungen! Mit einem Schmunzeln habe ich den Post verfolgt und bin in mich gegangen, mich auf meine Französischlehrerin zu besinnen. Sie kam prinzipiell zu spät in den Unterricht. 🎅 Und wir waren dann so schlecht vorbereitet, dass die Prüfung schwierig verlief.
Adventliche Grüße aus Augsburg von Heidrun 🎄

eileeninmd said...

Hello,
I must admit I do not remember watching that movie.
Sounds like you have happy memories of your co-workers.
Those flash mob dancers are cool.
I remember the nuns walking around with rulers, scared me silly. Take care, have a wonderful week ahead.

RedPat said...

I never saw the movie, Iris.
We got hit with rulers a lot in school.

My name is Erika. said...

I can't believe that movie is now 50 years old. I guess that's what happens when you get older...your brain is still in 50 year ago mode and you can't believe time has passed that far. And I have some people I've lost touch with but would love to connect to. Have a great rest of your weekend and start to the new week. hugs-Erika

Anonymous said...

Good memories-Christine cmlk79.blogspot.com

Jeanie said...

I can't believe I've never seen this film! Everyone has -- but I guess from your comments, not everyone. Good memories all. Tim Curry has a new book out -- a biography now. I'd like to read it.

CJ Kennedy said...

I love Rocky Horror and Tim Curry. Awww, nice to have a male friend like that. I had one. He was like a big brother to me. Sadly, he passed very young from Leukemia. I'm glad I have such fond memories of him. Corporal punishment in school. I went to a parochial school with nuns! Need I say more?

Linda's Relaxing Lair said...

Dear friend Iris, I saw The Rocky Horror Picture Show so long ago.
Henry looks happy 😊 in his throne.
Sending you warm hugs 🫂 🤗 and much love.

MELODY JACOB said...

What a brilliant memory lane trip.

Bill said...

Nice memory of a good time. In grade school, we use to blow spit balls through straws at our teachers who were nuns. The class used to laugh. Some of the things seem so foolish these days considering all the mayhem that goes on now. Henry looks very festive. I am only posting on M, W and F until Feb. Have a good week, Iris.

Lowcarb team member said...

I do like Henry, he is looking so festive.

All the best Jan

Mae Travels said...

One of the movie theaters downtown played the Rocky Horror Picture Show every week for many years (maybe for decades). Somehow I never got around to going to any of these showings. Too late now.

River said...

LOVE the flashmob! 😀
Smacked on the ankles with a ruler? not here, boys were made to bend over and got smacked on the bum with a "yard stick" which is simply a large ruler 36 inches long and 3 inches wide. Girls got smacked on the palm of the hand with a regular ruler. Not by teachers, only by the principal and you had to have been really naughty. By the time I finished grade school, those punishments were no longer allowed.

Iris Flavia said...

And you never joined him, Tom?

Iris Flavia said...

Ho-ho-ho!

Iris Flavia said...

Oh jeh, so einen Teamleiter hatte ich auch mal. Niw am Platz, nix offen und schlussendlich ist das gesamte Team gegen ihn aufgestanden...Hach, lange er, auf einen schönen Advent!

Iris Flavia said...

Oh, this musical sure is worth to be watched! Yes 90% I have great memories! You went to school with nuns? Wow. I think "unthinkable" in Germany...

Iris Flavia said...

You should give it a go, RedPat - the movie, not the rulers!!!!

Iris Flavia said...

Yes, getting old(er) is nothing for Bangbüxen, as my friend says! Hugs to that, we can do it!

Iris Flavia said...

Yes, and thankful for it!

Iris Flavia said...

Oh, thank you - I´ll look out for the book - and the musical really is worth to be watched.

Iris Flavia said...

Yay to Rocky Horror and so sad about your friend! Yes, mS was more like a Brother, too. Once he kissed me and... like a Brother! Poor dude that. Really nuns at school? Unthinkable here!

Iris Flavia said...

Dear friend Linda, sounds like the show needs a review 😉 Henry sure loves this time of the year - in real he is surrounded by "his people" on the Christmas Market! And sends warm hugs and much love with me 🥰

Iris Flavia said...

Yes, great times it was!

Iris Flavia said...

Amazing how many had nuns as teachers and yes, those things were "fine" compared with what goes on these days. See you on M,W and F then :-) To a good week, Bill!

Iris Flavia said...

Henry loves Christmas! The market is all around him!

Iris Flavia said...

Bummer - so sad! It was awesome, really. But you can still get it on DVD/online, invite some friends and have FUN!

Iris Flavia said...

Yes, so cool - sad how few people got excited there.
What? Here no one got hit at school (but by keys) - only at home... These days teachers get hit by pupils here...

River said...

Same everywhere, all schools. Kids are out of control because of no punishment at home, they never even get told "no", instead everything is done to please them. They never learn to do for themselves, they never learn respect for others.

Iris Flavia said...

Sadly even in "my" family - see why I have no kids - Id say no!