Monday, November 21, 2016

No Pessimist



My Mum used to say I´m a pessimist and I always answered, no, I´m a realist.
(Pic btw from Pexels, you are free to use them, awesome, no?)

I was looking for a museum we´ve been to and used my blog, it was the Auswandererhaus in Bremen.

And this is where I found it.
20 years of being with Ingo.

And I like totally forgot how A, whom I was into flat-sharing in a group of four with, how she tried to steal away Ingo.

I absolutely had forgotten how she made "friends" with me to get him.

I looked at the pictures and...
No, I´m not a pessimist, I´m a realist, a dumb and too forgiving one.

Ok, I could forgive cause she was never near to get what she wanted.
Really. Running around in sexy underwear/body around Ingo and none of us says a thing must´ve been hurtful, no?
And she tried for a long time, not giving up.
Coming into my room, sitting down watching movies on the bed with us.
"Friend"....

Guess we were quite naive back then? And in love :-)
She´s Ingo´s age btw!

Crazy times.

Is it always good to forgive (too) quickly?

Sometimes I don´t think so, but I cannot be mad for long (unlike Ingo, sadly).

A.... what´s she up to these days, huh?
Would she succeed now? I don´t think so.

Oh, was I naive...
Or realistic?

4 comments:

Sami said...

I think it's good to forgive, although you might not really forget...
Not a good friend that girl, getting close to you to steal your boyfriend, that's awful!!

Iris Flavia said...

Yes, awful is the right word... but maybe I needed to learn a lesson. Or she, I´m not sure. But unlikely this´ll happen again, that I´m that naive.

PerthDailyPhoto said...

True love always wins Iris, even when there's sexy underwear involved ☺ Ingo had already made his choice oui xx

Iris Flavia said...

:-) You are right, Grace, he´d made his choice. xx