Wednesday, March 08, 2023

Free As A Bird

Galeria Kaufhof, as many more stores, closed down - COVID? Who knows.
The store was in Braunschweig as long as I can remember, long before I moved here (I had friends here).
 
Erika drove me to this long forgotten sign in the window with this post... 
 
 
This is a brolly from Japan, given to me likely in the year 1979.
From a man who after some long fights became free as a bird...
 

Today he would turn 85.
He had to leave thanks to cancer in August 2002. Never saw his Son getting married, never met his Grandchildren.
He is not forgotten. 
I will write a WhatsApp to Bro and he will bring flowers to the grave.
 
Dad was in Japan in I think 1979 cause he and Mum´d sold so many SEIKO-watches he got the journey as pressie. The journey was for both of them but they split it cause one had the urge to stay with the business.
 
He was also an optometrist, gold smith and hearing care professional, it´s not all about time... though he also not only sold watches, he was a watch-maker, too, as my Mum was.
 
 
And he brought pressies for all of us:
 
 
Left to right in original kimonos on New Year´s Eve 1979: Bro, Dad, me, Granma.
Only Bro realized a pic is taken!
Or... that Mum left the table, LOL.
 
Oh, did I HATE that fondue. Fat over an open flame, it was a pain each time!
Dad looks maybe a tad pis#ed cause he had to be the "chef" not only for my Brother but also for me... I did not dare touch that hot thing there!
And was always ready to run in case of fire.

Pic taken by Mum.

This is for Tom´s Signs2.

A sign that no one really is gone as long as people think of them.
And that we are equal, as in also kimonos for men and women - if you like see post from yesterday night here on that subject.

Henry 🦁

 
Sad you missed out on so much, Dad.
 

 
 

18 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hugs

Iris Flavia said...

Thank you.
At least he is not forgotten. And I have a Japanese mirror and notebook, too to think of him.

My name is Erika. said...

Cancer is a terrible disease. There are too many terrible diseases. I wish we could all just grow very old and peacefully die in our sleep, but that's not nature, is it? I am loving that umbrella and that photo of all of you in your kimonas. I wanted to buy one in Japan, but they are expensive. I love that photo of you. I hope you have good thoughts of your Dad today. hugs-Erika

Tom said...

...free like a bird, amen!

DVArtist said...

It's hard with cancer takes our loved one. Both my sister and brother are gone because of it. I do love seeing the photos and all the memories they hold. Hugs, my dear friend.

Iris Flavia said...

Erika, yes, to all hat. I do have good memories mostly - or fun ones.
No big party today, alas.

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Tom, yes, it was no life in the end...

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Nicole, thank you and hugs back - losing Siblings is even worse...

CJ Kennedy said...

A very pretty umbrella and wonderful family photo and memories of your dad. I believe we carry those that went before us. They are in our hearts, the way we talk, gesture, look. I look in the mirror and see Ma looking back at me.

Jeanie said...

That umbrella is so beautiful. I loved the vintage photos -- do you like fondue now? I love it and the hot pots. Lovely memories, Iris.

Iris Flavia said...

CJ, yes, I look at my hands and see my Dad´s. He also gave me his eye-color.
I´m also sadly as hectical as he was.
Yes, we take them along...

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Jeanie, no I still hate fondue. On our small kitchen table that would be highly dangerous, too! And Ingo gets sick from hot fat likely, we won´t try this. I think my Brother took the gear. May he be happy with that! :-)

Bill said...

Nice memories. Our parents live in our hearts forever. Never had fondue so I don't have an opinion.

At Home In New Zealand said...

Love your Japanese parasol - it is so pretty. Always sad to remember our loved ones who have gone, but what wonderful memories they leave us with. That is what we have to treasure :) xx

Iris Flavia said...

Bill, yes, and fondue-wise you missed not a thing ;-)

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Margaret, yes, I have many a good and fun memory! xx

gigi-hawaii said...

Those are very nice pictures. I like your umbrella and those kimonos.

RedPat said...

It is a beautiful umbrella and it brings you happy memories, Iris. I've never had fondue either.

William Kendall said...

Cancer is a horrible disease.

Iris Flavia said...

gigi, yes, it I have some nice ones still left.

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RedPat, you missed nothing not knowing fondue... and yes, nice memories otherwise!

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William, yes.

River said...

You have nice memories of your Dad and the umbrella/parasol.
I remember fondue parties here in the 70s, I never went to one and didn't have a fondue pot either, but people here would melt cheese in their pots and guests would dip vegetables or bread, others melted chocolate and guests would dip fruit or bread or pastries.

Iris Flavia said...

A cheese fondue... I sadly never had one... It´s typical Swiss.
We had a raclette, little pans you fill with cheese and whatever you want, put it under a grill and on top, well you make a mini bbq.
Yum, but you´re full very soon. And Ingo hates it.