Thursday, December 27, 2018

What If...



Well, see title, what if ... you were never born?

Would it make a difference?
In my case I´m not so sure anymore.

Yes.

OH - you do know this movie?

In Germany a classic for Christmas, a must-see in my family (hence I watched by myself).



Well.
I do think I did some good.
I was, as you, I guess, also, there for people who had very bad times.
Seesh. I "worked my ### off" to make time every Thursday to help bro with the house after Mum was gone.
And such.
You know.

The whole day/half a day when... blablabla. T, P, I.... oh guess it´s not the whole alphabet...



Helped Dad and Mum on their last weeks, no matter how far away from my workplace (oh, that hurts to type. YES. I DO know I´m safe here in Germany, but to have lost my job.... hurts for too many reasons).

Hopes??



We did have that a bit.

Well. I am not that beautiful, but this is kinda me, anyways...



I´m a bad person, too.
I forget to buy water for Ingo OR I SCREAM AT HIM - are you an angel, I am not.
And then...





A bell might ring.
I will not get wings (and so far I am even glad for that).



If you were not born... would it make a difference outside blog-world?

As I have met some (ex-)bloggers in real life I have to say: You made a difference to me.
Good ones, too :-)

Some of you travel the world, George Bailey did not - despite it was his biggest dream.
He got kids instead. Oh, and a wife. And he was happy, too.
Was he.

Ingo wanted kids. Badly. We fought so hard about this cause I did not.
The very few times I saw my Nieces... phew. Changing a 2-y-o who is even lying still... I failed (OK, no, but it took awfully long).

No Lion of the day today.

Addendum: Minor accident only and I just put leggins on her (they were teight, though).

8 comments:

magiceye said...

What if... there was no internet... Th world would still be a much wider place?

magiceye said...

In reply to your query on my post.. They are strings of lights up on the roof :) Time for celebration.

Iris Flavia said...

To your first... hm. I "ow" a lot to the internet. Job included! And... Would I see all your pics? I do believe the internet as a whole is a win (yes, you can do harm, too):

To your second: I thought so. But I wasn´t sure. Also of what is OK to say ...

William Kendall said...

That's a tough one for me, at least at this time of year. In a few days I'd be able to answer better.

Jeanie said...

I have to believe we all bring something to the world. Sometimes there are deep disappointments, sometimes self doubt or shame or sadness. But there has to be a little light -- and I'm not so sure about you and the bell and the angel wings. You may have made more of a difference to someone than you think and you may never know. But they will.

Lowcarb team member said...

Each of us is unique, and we do all bring something to this world :)

All the best Jan

Iris Flavia said...

William, I am sorry. At least it´s a lilited time, we´re off, no?

Jeanie, I had a very bad time watching/writing this. "But they will" sure made my day.
Who needs wings...

Jan, yes. What can I say more than: I agree :)

Thank you all.

peppylady (Dora) said...

What if...It could give us head ache trying to figure this out...Time wise that is.
What if could simple have two sides...negative reaction and postive reaction.
Coffee is on